Best Coach For Best CoachingSeptember 13, 2020
A kindly Man
Once upon a time, there was a kindly man, wanting to buy a chainsaw for his farm, he spent months thinking about it, he knew he wants the chainsaw for his farm, but then the farm did not need a chainsaw however, when he finally made a decision, he bought it. For weeks and months, this kindly man walks miles away wandering into the forest, with the chainsaw in his hand.
The kindly man knew that he wanted something, but could not define what it is, and why he wanted something. This kindly man, wanders around the forest for ages, not knowing why he is there, or which tree he shall cut.
During sleep, the kindly man saw an imposing, and illuminating shimmering lights descending from above. “indecision, huh? says the lights, with deep and soft awe inspiring voice.
The kindly man looked up, and asked the Shimmering light to help him make a decision, “please help, please help,” says the kindly man. The light formed into trillion upon trillion of glittering sphere of coloured lights, opening like a sun flower turning toward the sun, but this time, turning toward the kindly man, shining upon his kindly face, and says, you have already made a decision, but you are doubting yourself, and your past residual self is holding you back.
Let go from the past, forgive all those who hurt you, and forgive yourself, when you do that, the universe will conspire to clarify your vision. However, when you answer the ‘why’ questions, about your desire to find purpose and meaning in your life, your dreams become a self prophecy.
The kindly man woke up determined to find the ‘why’, over sudden, he realises that the huge cottage house he lived in needs total revamp, and making it into a holiday cottage home. His deceased wife always wanted to run the huge cottage house into a business, but her husband, the kindly man, never knew how.
Most of us, at one time or another get lost in our vision of the future, and all of us need a mentor, coach to mirror back to us the areas, the beliefs, and the perception that allude and lead us into the road most travelled, the dark side of the tunnel. One of the most inspiring moments in our lives is recognising the need for mentoring, and taking action toward it.
What is coaching/mentoring?
Coaching is a process, which identifies barriers to success, health, and happiness, and encourages Moral self-autonomy. Coaching is geared morally and ethically toward helping you achieve results, results that you can experience, see, feel, and measure.
Coaching has moved beyond the traditional therapies which dwells in the past, coaching is about the here and now, and how to plan for the future. Socrates says “the unexamined life is not worth living” this may be interpreted as I call it ‘ the unexamined belief has severe consequence’ thus it is the unplanned life which is not worth living.
“if Your Life is Worth Living, it is Worth Planning”
How does coaching/mentoring work?
Without your willingness and determination to seek renewal, a coach will not take you on, simply because some individuals are not yet ready for change, growth and success. Once you convince your mentor coach that you are ready, the process of creativity, resourcefulness and personal power begin to unleash from within you. The coaching work process aims to ask an intuitive question about set backs or crisis, and find empowering solutions, to be put into action, to help you regain personal power by taking action, and it is through specific kind of intelligent actions that leads to successful and intelligent results.
How often should I be mentored and how long will I need coaching/mentoring for?
You hold the power, you make that decision, and you go with the flow of the kind of results you feel you are achieving. Some leaders require a trainer or a coach for as long as they keep achieving results. Think of a football coach, think of athlete coach, think of schoolteacher, or a counsellor. Each individual may require specific time scale, some choose to have a permanent coach, e.g: investors, leaders, celebrities, sport men and women, others need short term coaching, maybe once a week of a 12 weeks duration, or once a month session. The good thing about having technology now, is that you can choose to remain anonymous, and be coached in the comfort of your own home, using emails, phone calls, or if you decide that face to face coaching is something you prefer. Your coach is always available via different medium of communication.
What kind of people who use coaching/mentoring?
In my experience, I have had clients of different status, and cultural and educational background. The most success driven individuals are people like celebrities, civil servants, Lords, MPs, teachers, investors, entrepreneurs, career movers, sports men/women, men and women preparing for their retirement (adjustment) to manual and office workers.
What do these people get out of coaching/mentoring after while?
You feel in great shape and stand tall in front of people who underestimated you, and can stand up to adversity.
You gain knowledge, concrete, precise and become virtually invincible to challenges.
You increase your winning potentials, with your strategy toward victory.
You meet challenges with fun, self-assurance, and knowledge.
You present yourself impressively, have plenty of charm, seduction and your finances begin to double
You have a strong posture
You are very linkable, have a great soul and you become extremely pleased with how your life is going.
You have many talents and take advantage of them all.
You are diligent, richer, and noble in your deeds
You have immense energy required to succeed.
You are a solution finder, and result driven.
You are successful in all areas, have no fear but only aspirations you follow through, and you will make others succeed
You contribute to society with total commitment and have invincible explosiveness and power.
Kindly man: What is ‘ true’ success’ really?
Andre: True success become apparent when you begin to feel that you want to make everyone rich, healthy, and happier. by doing so, you increase your happiness, health and wealth. This is the true success.
What is a ‘true Leader
Andre: A leader is some one who points you to the right direction, serves others with pure intention, and help you become successful.
The kindly man: Interesting, I met few so called Leaders, they ignore you if you don’t rise to their status, or not rich enough to be considered or allowed into their circle., I find out that elitists are the prime example, and most of them behave cynically and live an unhappy life. Why despite their excellent education, and eloquence, they end up unsatisfied with life?
Andre: because a man is never really that successful, never a leader, until he feels the passion to want to serve his/her community, to empower and enrich society.
You Are NEVER a Leader Until You Learn How to Bring Out The Leader In Others!
This is NUTS!! I began using the Incantation, Andre calls it Script programming, I listened to Mp3 for15 minutes a day and 15 minutes in bed before sleep. On Friday of that third week, I felt a sudden ‘change‘ and obliterated my fear of public speaking, or speaking to ANYONE!! Anonymous client
I found solutions to many of my problems, Andre call them ‘challenges’ I learnt to resolve ‘challenges’ while having great fun, laughing much and often. Mike, retired diplomat, Hampshire
A month later, I had became an insanely FUN person IN ALL AREAS OF MY LIFE… ALL! I no longer offend or do drugs.Anonymous
I overcome my timidity, fears, inferiority complex, etc. This has helped me enormously both personally AND professionally! I’m A Believer Now!!” James from London
I sought his professional help after a heart problem that I had experienced when I was advised by my G.P to seek counselling and stress therapy in order to help me cope more effectively with the execution of my role as a House Master at a private college. I engaged Andre to help me and he has been very beneficial.
I have gained enormously from his care, and counselling skills, relaxation techniques and lessons on guided meditation. He is a remarkable person, wise and compassionate. His ability to relate to problems and to challenge his patients or clients to seek renewal has been uplifting for me. In particular, I have been impressed by his integrity and single mindedness.I value his skills highly. I regard him as a most sympathetic and spiritual person who is likely to enrich the lives of all who come into contact with him.Neil from Sussex.
“Knowledgable, patient, deeply caring. My awesome recovery is due to your commitment” John, Hampshire.
” You are a blessing to me, you instilled in me the belief and faith and the power to focus on results and not on symptoms, has helped me recuperate” Helen, Dulwich.
Andre is a philosophy graduate,
Qualified teacher, and writer
Independent neuroscience researcher
Mentor and spiritual counsellor with Neuro-Lingistic-Programming diploma
Mob: 07999 579 135